On the frontline of the console wars, itâs difficult to find perspective. Whether youâve already chosen a side and are deep in the trenches, or youâre just trying to figure out if an Xbox Series X (see on Amazon) or PS5 (see on Amazon) makes a better Christmas gift this year, youâd be hard pressed to find a measured, bipartisan take on the internet. Instead, the seemingly endless battle between Microsoft and Sony is littered with fanboys using Starfield ass mods to âdunkâ on each other and CEOs arguing over console exclusives and their perceived value
Iâm not a console warrior, nor am I a specs girl. I donât care about framerates or ray tracing all that much; Iâm not fussed about the power of processors. I grew up playing PlayStation until my high school boyfriend introduced me to Halo 2, then I bought an Xbox 360 so I could play Halo 3. I currently own a Series S and a PS5, both of which are jammed into a too-small entertainment console in my living room. But there is a distinct delineation between what kind of game I play on each device, and itâs worth discussing: I use my Series S for my competitive shooters, and my PS5 for almost everything else.

The Xbox comp game
I spend a lot of time playing Overwatch 2 on my Series S, but I also use its rather small storage for Warzone, Apex Legends, and Halo Infinite (see on Amazon). These are my core four shooters that I regularly rotate betweenâI never play those first three on my PS5, even with the consoleâs extra storage space making it a lot easier to keep (and update) huge games like Call of Duty. There are a few reasons why.
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As I mentioned, I got an Xbox so I could play Halo 3 (see on Amazon), which means I cut my teeth in the FPS world using the heftier Xbox controllers. As such, my hands became molded to them, my fingers grew comfortable with their curves. Even with slight variations in their design since the 360 days (like the controversial d-pad change that removed the disc in the Xbox One controller, or the extra button added with the Series X/S model), Microsoftâs controller has felt ergonomically superior for years.
The setup of the triggers and the joysticks, the way it rumbles, even the sheer heft of its plastic has always made Xbox controllers a more comfortable fit when compared to PlayStationâs DualShock and DualSense, whose symmetrical joysticks give me hand cramps. The size of the PlayStation controllersâ triggers also baffle me, and have historically made my attempts to play anything like Fortnite or Call of Duty rather miserable.

Then thereâs the social aspectâI find it a lot easier to invite people to parties and chirp enemy players on Xboxâs interface. As Twitch streamer Jynxzi often shows during his play sessions, itâs easy in games like Rainbow Six Siege (see on Amazon) and Overwatch 2 to find a player in your match, navigate to their profile, and send them a friend request or, in Jynxziâs case, an unhinged voice memo. I use this feature often to reach out to players in Overwatch comp who arenât talking and (mostly) politely request that they swap a character or heal more when playing as Moira. I donât find those features as simple on PlayStation.
Of course, my Xbox preference would not exist were it not for Halo 3, the sole reason why Iâm a shooter player in the first place. And Haloâs exclusivity to Xbox consoles is a large reason why those same consoles remain my preference for my daily competitive game session. When I have a few bad rounds in Overwatch, I can seamlessly swap to playing some lighthearted matches in Halo Infinite. Everything is right there, at my fingertips.
But aside from Starfield, an Xbox-exclusive RPG that sucked up a good chunk of my time before proving a bore, if thereâs a narrative-focused game, Iâm playing it on my PS5.

The PlayStation prestige
Thereâs two major reasons why the PS5 is my go-to console for big-budget campaigns: Sony (often exclusively) releases some of the best single player games, and the DualSenseâs features make my gaming experience so much better.
The controllerâs groundbreaking haptic feedback system does a lot of impressive stuff. It offers different firing modes based on how far down you pull the trigger in Ratchet & Clank: Rift Apart (see on Amazon) and adds an extra layer to Prowler Stash puzzles in Marvelâs Spider-Man 2 (see on Amazon)Â by requiring you to apply different pressure on each side. And it feels great when itâs not offering more depth and just, literally, vibingâlike when I swing through New York City as Miles Morales or ward off scaries in Alan Wake II. Swiping on the touch pad at its center adds even more layers to a gaming experience, and thereâs nothing that delights me more than when a phone call emanates from the built-in speaker. And because Sony knows how powerful its DualSense is, all of the studios working on first-party games make the most of it.
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Those first-party titles are, by and large, some of the most polished modern gaming experiences you can get. Whether itâs God of War: Ragnarök (see on Amazon) or Horizon Forbidden West (see on Amazon), Sonyâs games are akin to Hollywood blockbusters or fine-tuned supercarsâtheyâre written like ancient epics, acted by icons, and so often without the jankiness that can scar new releases. Whether or not that makes them demonstrably better than other games is not the conversation here, but it is undeniable that they feel like theyâre worth $70, especially when you have all the power of the DualSense in your palms.
Of course, the PS5âs storage size is a key elementâthough I may not care about frames per second, I do love that I can have Skyrim, Star Wars Jedi: Survivor, Elden Ring, Spider-Man 2, and Alan Wake II stored on there and regularly updated without having to uninstall anything.
Without realizing it, Iâve trained myself to boot up my PS5 when Iâm in the mood for a lengthy, relaxed night of gaming that involves scouring worlds for hard-to-find objects or taking on daunting bosses, or power up my Xbox Series S when I want to shoot shit and yell into my headset. The consoles have become intrinsically linked with those different play styles, to such an extreme that, when I tried to play last yearâs Call of Duty Modern Warfare II on PS5, I almost immediately shut it off and swapped back to Warzone on my Series S instead.
If you have both consoles, when do you play each and why?
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